6 simple things to make you more attractive

Everyone is unique and attractive in their own way, that’s a known statement. Sure, your facial structure and your fashion sense can add up to the level of your attractiveness. But did you know that your flaws are actually what draws others to you?

If you can’t believe that, we can show you with shreds of evidence that without your flaws, you wouldn’t be as attractive as you are to the ones who love you.

But first, let me warn you: some of these things might seem awfully stupid, but science is backing them all up, so…

Let’s dive right into it

1. Obsession over little things

Obsession is a powerful thing, it can easily overcome you when you love something so much. Of course, when you love someone deeply, you become ready to sacrifice a lot for them. But when it starts costing you your relationships and health, then that’s a serious issue!

And with that in mind, I would like to tell you that your obsession with your hobbies or work is making you very attractive to others, to yourself, even! So as long as it doesn’t affect your overall life, allow your obsession to lead you into success.

2. Oversharing

Sharing a lot of information to the wrong people can be very dangerous sometimes, but if you are building a relationship or deepening one, oversharing doesn’t have to be a horrible thing. Based on a theory, to develop intimacy and closeness with somebody, you will need to share your personal information — it works like a charm!

However, make sure you are 100% comfortable with being vulnerable. Gradually, your relationship will thrive.

3. Depending on others to support you in your goals

Have you ever been someone’s cheerleader? One of the best qualities in a partner is to be supportive, and that’s what every passionate person with goals needs in a partner.

Don’t be hesitated to ask others for support or help, it’s actually a sign of strength, not weakness. And also, don’t assume they will do everything for you, but they will surely be by your side as you make your way to success.

4. Enjoying gossip!

This might come as a shock because gossiping is against morals and everyone hates it. But did you know that there is harmful gossip, useless gossip, and good gossip?

Obviously, we are talking about good gossip because it can actually save people from the bad intentions of others. Emm… it might seem petty at first, but your loved ones will appreciate it as soon as they realize you saved them from being victims of others.

5. Not afraid to stand up for yourself

Sometimes, you don’t feel like saying “yes” to meet a friend, do an activity, or even talk on the phone, especially with this whole lockdown situation, you feel drained over nothing! But the main reason why you say no is because you prioritize yourself. It is completely okay to be selfish and ruthless if whatever is asked of you is not worth your time and energy, and that is attractive.

You have to always put yourself first and not be afraid to seem rude. Sure, you can help others but only if you can and really want to.

6. You take things slowly

As if the world is about to end, people are always rushing to get things done and enjoy life to the maximum. It’s true we need to live life as if there is no tomorrow, but we also have to be rational and not rush everything.

Stop going to countless parties, talking to everyone, and jumping over many stages in your relationship. If you want to enjoy life more, you should take things slow. Focus on a few people, attend parties that you only interested in, and live each moment of your relationship day by day. Prioritize quantity over quality to make your life as charming as you are.

I think I proved my point when I said that some of these are stupid, so whether they are true or not, why not trying them out anyway? If it didn’t increase your level of attractiveness, I am sure it will enhance your quality of life at some level, and that what matters!